Let's face it. This cancer thing is a humbling experience, to say the least. I have just completed my first surgery and have no idea how many more might be in my future (though I hope NONE). But, I have definitely learned from others that I should allow people to help when they offer. This is how I can bless them is what I have been told. It's an odd concept and a challenging thing to do, but it is certainly helpful to us and incredibly thoughtful. I can't believe how many people have already offered to help our family in one way or another. There is a website that a friend created in order to provide a way for our friends and family to help in any way they would choose. Another friend set us up with a calendar for meals to be brought for the family. Please feel free to check out either of these sites for more information: Take Them a Meal Search: Louis Password: Louis **case-sensitive** Help the Louis Family You can click on the link and see some information, but to access the tabs for calendars, etc, you will have to register with a user name and password. Contact the web administrator if you have any questions.